Life Style Up-grade

Enough of intoxicating the body, Beb, look at your self, you are way to awesome for this.... what ever you call it. Now forget that, whatever it was, because this is big. It's here, and its staying. It's the Lifestyle Upgrade!!!

Am sooo excited about it, no more procrastination, that's the beginning of the lifestyle up grade. Its now or nothing. Lets check out my top 8 fave items on my life style upgrade list;

1. Eat healthy

Less of the junk and more of the boiled foods, vegetables and fruits. Drink more water, whenever I want something little sweet I actually do natural juice or milk. Beautiful skin is bound to catch up with me eventually.

2. Work out already

Start jogging, or hit the pool, find a gym or yoga partner. When people start checking out the abs, it will all be worth it.

3. Dress up

Now that your looking healthy, let your wardrobe reflect that as well. Bright colours always do it for me, they always seem to carry an aura of freshness. Get the floral, polka dots, yellows and greens. Don't forget that really awesome jacket always comes in handy, an awesome jacket is a definite must have.

4. Always Smell good

Invest  in a good perfume or body splash or whatever works for you. Just don't settle for cheap. Because when you smell good, people take you more serious.

5. Stay calm and Avoid rushing

When you rush you always seem to be a little clumsy. Trust me time is in your hands, no one else's, take those strides calmly, don't rush in your speech either, all there trying to defend your self. Take your time and everyone else will feed off your vibes.

6. Be courteous

Always remember to say thank you, Please, good morning, hello. People always remember the polite person. Importantly always leave a tip for good service ONLY!!!. I never tip for horrible services.

7. Stay happy

No one likes hanging around gloomy and party poppers, personally I will avoid you like an extremely bad joke!!!!!

 8. Read a Book

Reading a book always makes you seem deep, not shallow, and importantly really cool. Go out for  lunch alone and pull out a book. There you are with your gorgeous skin, rocking bod reading a book, sooooo cool. Plus you will broaden on your vocabulary. |Please remember to finish the book you started.



I love this list!!! trust me the first part of me acting on it was writing the list, It's never too late.

Gorgeousness here I come

                                                                    XOXO

One Last Kiss

Maybe  I am a feminist, I have never really looked at my self that way, but when it comes to standing up for women, off the chair and up I go. I guess I have just had enough of women playing small countless times, don't get me wrong I love the other species with whom we share this world, but this is girl time we have to have each other's backs.

Yes we are have raging emotions that could run turbines and generate 70% of the world's energy, so please everyone come to terms with that. If you accept that simple fact, life will be much easier for you. Like my 'friend' Pink says " I think that life is too short for this", yes life is too short for explaining our irrational behaviour or regretting past mistakes.

Let's take some time and look on the plus side behind every successful man is a mother, a wife a daughter. If we can lead men to such heights we can definitely get there and beat them at their own game . Raging emotions and totally unexplainable out bursts, embrace those and take charge. Moving forward, achieve the unachievable, travel the world, lend a helping hand, let us eat, pray, love (thanks Julia Roberts)

Get over it already, us too women, get over it, its time for yesterdays' goodbyes and today's hello's.
And that one last kiss,

XOXO.

Confessions of a 20 something Female

So here we are again , 2014, new year new me. That's what we tell our selves year in year out. "I guess this year it shall be less of the mistakes and more of the good judgement"  says the little voice in my head that appears every new year.

But not so far down the road I saw a really cute outfit which looked  size smaller but against my better judgement I still pointed at it and tried it on hoping that my eyes were deceiving me and just maybe this outfit was actually my size. Off my clothes went and on came the super hot outfit. "its just a little tight" i told me self, and against my better judgement I purchased it. And to this day I have put on that outfit only once, and it doesn't look as hot as it did then, so much for new me.

We always go through these motions as women, blaming our selves for the bad decisions or poor choices we made. That loser boyfriend you thought you loved or that hairstyle you knew you would rock but did not work out as planned or that brand new expensive designer watch that was a fake. Name it, countless times we have fallen short of the new us.

But there is hope, there is nothing as beautiful as eventually getting something right after failing at it numerous times. A baby falls time and time again until it finally walks. Lets not be afraid to fail, because its only through the failures that we actually become stronger and 'newer'. If we want to get to the point when we can confidently say new year new me, we have to embrace our mistakes big and small.

Happy new year Girls!!


A person who never made a mistake never tried anything new.

Albert Einstein